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What separates you from others?

Posted on Apr 22nd, 2008 by doolang : Unity doolang
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for April 20, 2008:

What doesn't separate me? Us vs. Them is the norm: parent vs child, teacher vs student, employer vs employee, girl vs. boy, government vs citizen, producer vs. consumer, gay vs. straight, democrat vs republican...ad infinitum. There is comparatively far more effort to squash ulterior viewpoints than to include or allow them. 

 

What binds us might be a better question? Name one thing that we can all agree on? Maybe seeking agreement is our mistake. Maybe it is wrong to think that in a universe of infinite possibility we would all choose the same one. 

 

About a week ago i asked the universe to show me how we would bridge this divide that keeps us from really being one, how would we cure the  Social Dis-Ease that keeps us apart. 

 

I was shown a vision of  a round flat bottomed, clear, empty vessel, much like a petri dish settled in a golden environment, in which tiny droplets of water began to condense. The tiny droplets formed larger droplets as they joined and were drawn into each other. In short order the droplets were one calm connected sea of tranquility and in it a four petaled flower grew and blossomed. Its petals were balanced with an inevitable, but manageable, black dot that spoke of the beautiful darkness present in a part of everything. It grew balanced and at its core it embodied the many aspects of existence and expressed this harmoniously. It's essence was love. This picture is my drawing of the vision.

 

 

 

The Blossoming of Global Love and Harmony

 

 

 

There is a certain social dis-EASE that keeps us from really being cooperative, it's a sort of desire for companionship but need for identity. Some brush it off smoothly, calling it ego demands. I think it runs far deeper than just the individual, because it's more a collective individuation: a sort of love-hate duality that keeps us desirous but defensive. Desiring closeness, but preventing it from happening. Inviting entry then slamming the door. At heart we are timid creatures one and all, yet desperately in need of love.

 

The closer we get to being one, the farther we jump. I wonder if at the edges where the guru's sit on their mountaintop blissfully joined with 'all in all', if some of them aren't so far removed from all in all that they are really blissfully basking in the glory of their own private universe and not really the collective.

 

The collective experience is so utterly foreign to us that examples of successful cooperative living are almost non-existent and attempts at such are all fraught with problems. The core of the difficulties lies in the use of competitive or conquering or dominating or subbordinating frameworks to build a cooperative society, which results in resentment and finally reverts to the conquering, competitive, dominating, subbordinating behavior posited by the framework. There is a new cooperative framework embedded in this vision.

 

For earth day I added the Apollo Earth photo to the mandala. Many point to this first glimpse of the tiny blue ball we live on as the point of our awakening. Soon there will be a blossoming. A blossoming that will come from each of us healing, and sharing that ability and in the process we will discover that we are all struggling with a different piece of the same puzzle and that in the process of healing ourselves we are healing each other. We will become a multitude of healers incredibly grateful for the amazing health and happiness we are living but without knowing who to thank, we will only be able to say: "Thank We" 


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Joy Bringer : Visionary Creator & Artivist
about 10 hours later
Joy Bringer said

BEAUTIFUL Vision in ALL ways - synchronistically created, marvelously expressed & wonderfully visually shared. Thank you for daring to be so honest and open thus inviting us to be more of that too, as we collectively remember & reconnect to the essence of this vision with care and love.  

As WE awaken to these new possibilities and realities, we heal the wounds & blossom into the beings that are not only able, but actually living in cooperation, synergy and harmony among themselves and with all other beings and things around us.

Can't wait to see and help bring that amazing vision into the most incredible reality! If something good can happen, it certainly will and it does.  Thank WE indeed! Pronoia in action :)

Inquisitive : Blissful :)
1 day later
Inquisitive said

Beautiful picture! I think we naturally tend to have ambivalent feelings about intimacy….we crave the closeness as you mentioned, but then when it presents itself, we panic and sometimes retreat inward. I've struggled with this myself, though with awareness I think brings enlightenment and opportunity for real growth with intimacy. It helps when you have someone to 'practice' intimacy with too I think. For me, it's my great friend Rajiv. It is nice to have intimacy in a friendship that is initially scary, but ultimately rewarding…and gives me hope that if I can have a strong degree of intimacy with one person, surely I will have it with others someday. :) Oh, and I think what makes unity vs. separation difficult in this world as a whole is that there is so much judgment and lack of respect for one's thoughts, feelings, and ideas. People want to be right too much. But does it really matter who is 'right' in the end? Yet it's lost on so many. Great blog.

doolang : Unity
2 days later
doolang said

Thank you, Inquisitive. I have to say i love your collage too. 

Judgement is a tough one. How do you recognize somebody doing something bad and not say or think that is bad? I can't stop myself from saying “NO!!!” if a child is reaching into the fire and i shouldn't. It's not okay to just stand back and let the child “learn”. Or is it? People who want to erase judgement, shoulds and shouldn'ts are also saying just let it happen, but that's pretty inhuman if you ask me, and pretty misguided. Because there is no way we are ever going to get along in a world where everybody just lets everything happen and nobody tries to restrain others or themselves.

I'm still pulling this apart, but i think what we object to most is the condemnation: The feeling that what is being said is not “that action is unproductive”, but that there is something wrong with one. What is desired is acceptance. When i put myself out there i want to be accepted. I don't need anyone to agree with me necessarily, but i do need to be allowed to have done what i have done and i need to be allowed to change in the way and time that i want to change. Not condemned for being who i am being and doing what i am doing. Neither by myself nor anyone else. It is what it is. 
It's wonderful that you have a friend you can share with. I've taken to sharing myself indiscriminately and publicly whenever there is an opening. I've found an amazingly accepting community here. 

It isn't the judgement its what do you do with it. How is the energy handled? Someone is flowing energy towards you in many forms including as a small subset words, written or spoken, and how do you treat every aspect of that flow? Do you accept it and allow it to penetrate you? Accept some flows and stop others? Throw some flows right back at the person? Our energy can be impacted in so many ways and it is felt instantly. One can embrace the flows and flow with the person back and forth like the tide…aaaaah bliss…or resist and slow the flow, stop it all together or flow against it try to force it back in the other direction…aarrgghh not so bliss. It's possible to not be willing to do what someone has done, yet still flow with them, still share the experience with them, still allow them to have done what they have done and the space to look at it without feeling hated or that they are in any way less of  a person because one doesn't agree. 

I say more bliss. follow your bliss. be the bliss you want to bliss. And there is no need to make people wrong by asserting rightness. 
Who would Jesus bomb?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReiisUom5cw

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